You have to compromise and be positive and not lash out and be controlling in a relationship!
The only person you can change is yourself!
Either you love them for who they are, or you don’t love them. It’s pathetic when people say they love someone, then try to change them. All you gotta do is be honest, with yourself and them, and then stop wasting both of your time. I love when people actually love. ~ Alicia Ruebens
People who had the worst past 
Little chance you have in trying to change others 
Never chase love, affection or attention in your life